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"snippet": "1) Is this abuse? If your partner has a pattern of treating you in a way that makes you uncomfortable or scared, it can be hard to decide if what theyre doing is abusive, especially if there is no physical violence. You may believe you are at fault, or tell yourself that the mistreatment is not so bad. Through a conversation with a hotline advocate, you can learn about psychological (https://www.domesticshelters.org/resources/lists/ways-to-recognize-emotional-abuse), financial (https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/financial/are-you-the-victim-of-financial-abuse), sexual (https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abusers-use-sexual-abuse-to-control) and physical abuse (https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/when-abuse-goes-from-shouting-to-shoving), and coercive control (https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abuse-that-s-hard-to-recognize-coercive-control). This information will help you understand your relationship and your options.",
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"dek": "10 questions you can ask an advocate that have nothing to do with shelter",
"url": "https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/safety-planning/you-can-call-a-hotline-even-if-you-don-t-want-to-leave",
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"snippet": "Abusers rarely limit their tactic to just hitting. If you look at your relationship, you may be able to see the other red flags (https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/abusive-red-flags-everyone-should-know) that have popped up in the past. Have you noticed any of these signs of abuse?\n\n Feeling like youre being controlled. Your husband needs to know where you are at all times, who youre with, when youll be back, etc. He may check your phone, computer browser history or ask you to check in with him when you go somewhere. \n\n You see two sides to your husband. Others see him as a good person, but behind closed doors, he is angry and aggressive toward you.\n\n Hes admitted to being abusive in other relationships.\n\n He puts you down, calls you names, criticizes things you do, makes fun of you or your appearance, or makes it a point to try and tear you down when youre happy.\n\n Youve seen him be abusive to children, pets or other animals.",
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"dek": "Its not always that easy to recognize domestic violence, or admit youre a survivor",
"url": "https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/ask-amanda/ask-amanda-is-it-normal-that-my-husband-hits-me",
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"description": "Abuse can be normalized in childhood, but its time to break the cycle as an adult. "
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"snippet": "Abuse Is a Pattern of Harm\n\nIf your partner refuses to work on his or her issues, tries to blame you for their behavior or promises to change but doesnt, those are red flags that abuse may be on the way or already occurring. \n\nIn the midst of a relationship, the line between normal problems and abuse can be hard to identify, says Caitlin Garstkiewicz, LCSW of Clarity Clinic. However, a major differentiation between usual relationship challenges and abusive behavior is the pattern and consistency of hurtful or harmful behavior in an attempt to exert control and power over a partner.\n\n%{make_a_donation_vertical}\n\nGarstkiewicz suggests asking yourself the following questions:\n\nDoes my partner make me feel afraid? \n\nDo I have a poor sense of self-worth that originates in the feedback my partner gives me? \n\nDo I feel emotionally and physically unsafe around my partner? \n\nDo I feel I need to minimize or justify my partners behavior? ",
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"dek": "Seek individual therapy if you suspect youre being controlled",
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